So, you've heard the woes of men on dating sites complaining about getting swiped left. But what about the women who seem to have it all - good looks, brains, a great career - and still can't find their perfect match? Believe it or not, their struggle is real too.

Imagine scrolling through a forum and coming across this post: "Here I am, everything you could ask for – successful, attractive, interesting – and yet, Mr. Right keeps slipping through my fingers!" The frustration is palpable. They list the challenges: single guys in their circles seem nonexistent, work is a sea of female faces, and any decent prospects are already taken. "So where am I supposed to meet someone?" they plead.

Then, as the conversation unfolds, a different picture emerges. Maybe "everything you could ask for" isn't quite as broad as it seems. Maybe the list of "must-haves" for a partner is so specific, it only applies to a select 5% of the male population (and even then, that might be a stretch). And guess what? Those high-value guys tend to be either already spoken for or commitment-phobic.

Here's the thing: the meme-worthy question, "Am I asking too much?" often comes from a genuine place of confusion. But the reality is, lowering those sky-high standards can feel like settling. The idea of sharing your life with "just anyone" is simply unappealing. So, the search continues, and the chances of finding that perfect someone shrink with every passing day.

It's like a game with a faulty "picky meter" – set too high, and it keeps filtering out potential matches who might be amazing. Finding love in today's world can feel like winning the lottery – improbable odds, but hey, someone's gotta win, right? Except, unlike the lottery, there's a way to increase your chances.

Here's the truth: the perfect guy you're searching for is probably looking for someone pretty amazing too, and someone who isn't radiating signs of being a handful.

So, what can you do? Here are a few tips:

• Broaden Your Horizons: Don't limit yourself to the same social circles. Join clubs, attend events, or volunteer for causes you care about. You never know who you might meet!

• Rethink Your Check List: Is your list based on what truly matters in a long-term relationship, or is it filled with superficial qualities? Focus on shared values, similar interests, and someone who makes you laugh.

• Be Open to New Experiences: Give someone a chance even if they don't tick every box on your list. Chemistry and connection can blossom in unexpected places.

• Seek Psychological Help (if needed): A therapist can help you explore why you might be setting unrealistic expectations and develop healthier dating habits.

Finding love is a journey, and sometimes it takes a little self-reflection to get on the right track. By adjusting your "picky meter" and opening yourself up to new possibilities, you might just discover that Mr. Right has been waiting around the corner all along.